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Q “Is it normal to feel nothing the first time?”
Yes — it’s very common. Nerves, unfamiliarity, and tension all dampen sensation at first. Most people find it builds with relaxation, lubrication, and time…
Cited from Maison Velvetia · Pleasure & Self-Discovery

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